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INSIDE Montessori: DOcumentary

INSIDE Montessori: DOcumentary

INSIDE MONTESSORI

INSIDE MONTESSORI: A DOCUMENTARY 

INSIDE MONTESSORI (82:05) is a documentary film and library of short videos (chapter & focus videos and bonus videos) that reframe the national education conversation toward creating learning environments that allow children to achieve their full potential. The proven, developmental and child-centered practices of Montessori education can support ALL children, regardless of background and learning style, in having the opportunity to flourish in learning and in life.

The film explores what Montessori education is and how it differs from traditional education. It showcases how Montessori is giving children of all ages the chance to achieve their full potential.

United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child

United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child

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Most of us are aware that the United Nations adopted a declaration on the universal rights of the child, but many of us have not read it. Here is the introduction and the link to the full text. We encourage you to revisit it from time to time and reflect on the vital message and vision within.

 

Convention on the Rights of the Child

ADOPTED

20 November 1989

BY

General Assembly of the United Nations

resolution 44/25

Entry into force: 2 September 1990, in accordance with article 49

Preamble

The States Parties to the present Convention,

Considering that, in accordance with the principles proclaimed in the Charter of the United Nations, recognition of the inherent dignity and of the equal and inalienable rights of all members of the human family is the foundation of freedom, justice and peace in the world,

Bearing in mind that the peoples of the United Nations have, in the Charter, reaffirmed their faith in fundamental human rights and in the dignity and worth of the human person, and have determined to promote social progress and better standards of life in larger freedom,

Recognizing that the United Nations has, in the Universal Declaration of Human Rights and in the International Covenants on Human Rights, proclaimed and agreed that everyone is entitled to all the rights and freedoms set forth therein, without distinction of any kind, such as race, colour, sex, language, religion, political or other opinion, national or social origin, property, birth or other status,

Recalling that, in the Universal Declaration of Human Rights, the United Nations has proclaimed that childhood is entitled to special care and assistance,

Convinced that the family, as the fundamental group of society and the natural environment for the growth and well-being of all its members and particularly children, should be afforded the necessary protection and assistance so that it can fully assume its responsibilities within the community,

Recognizing that the child, for the full and harmonious development of his or her personality, should grow up in a family environment, in an atmosphere of happiness, love and understanding,

Considering that the child should be fully prepared to live an individual life in society, and brought up in the spirit of the ideals proclaimed in the Charter of the United Nations, and in particular in the spirit of peace, dignity, tolerance, freedom, equality and solidarity,

 

Click the link below to read the full text:

https://www.ohchr.org/en/instruments-mechanisms/instruments/convention-rights-child

Book Review: Montessori for Every Family: A guide for living, loving and learning

Book Review: Montessori for Every Family: A guide for living, loving and learning

Montessori for Every Family: A practical parenting guide to living, loving, and learning

 
 

Montessori For Every Family: A practical parenting guide to living, loving, and learning by Tim Seldin and Lorna McGrath is the picture-perfect guide to championing families in the creation of hallowed spaces where love, joy, connection, and respect are nurtured by amalgamating Montessori principles into a family’s daily life. This book honors and respects all families and is meant to offer suggestions and support. It is extremely practical, giving parents a plethora of organized tools and named strategies that they can apply immediately to create and strengthen positive family life. The authors offer specific suggestions for different stages and ages of a child’s development throughout the book. The writing is conversational and includes many real-life stories from families; their willingness to be candid and vulnerable allows for beautiful relatable storytelling. The charming illustrations look like ordinary moments on first inspection but hold magic in the possibilities of growth. There is also no need to be familiar with Montessori to benefit from this book because it provides you an introduction to Montessori and focuses on key Montessori principles.

As a Montessori leader, what immediately came to mind while reading this book was the support that it can give to guides and administrators while working in partnership with families.

 

Educators are committed to the development of the whole child and focus on growing strong, confident, compassionate, and capable human beings. And the whole child includes their family. I highly recommend this book be given to every Montessori guide and every parent to use as a resource. It will aid in establishing a partnership based on mutual respect, love, shared language, strategies, and consistency. The short chapters have clearly defined topics for easy access and do not even need to be read in order. It is beneficial when the whole school community is working from the same resource. It provides consistency for the child, the guides, and the parents as children change classroom environments and guides.

I would use this book in a parent book club, as well as give a series of workshops for parents based on the concepts of the book.

It is quite possible this might become your most highlighted and ear-tagged book because every page is packed with significant and ready-to-use gems of advice.

Tim and Lorna share their wisdom, knowledge, understanding, and experience in an exquisite book that can enrich and celebrate family life in so many ways. Make this a go-to book in your parenting journey or as a Montessori educator supporting families. Montessori For Every Family: A practical parenting guide to living, loving, and learning is an intention, a guide, and a reminder of the sacredness of having a peaceful family, as well as a reminder of the many blessings families already, have as well as those on their way.


Cassi Mackey, M.Ed. is passionate about helping communities create spaces where people are encouraged to make changes to improve relationships. Cassi has witnessed the transformational power of communities that engage in Courageous Conversation and Collaborative Coaching as imputable practices. It is a promise of more meaningful relationships, greater depth of experience, and a broader, more compassionate view of oneself and the world. She truly believes open, honest, and kind communication is essential for our children and the future of humanity. Cassi is currently a principal, as well as a lead teacher in a 9-12 classroom at Montessori Education Centre-Charter School in Mesa, Arizona and has successfully guided her school, as well as others, through this transformation. Cassi recently completed her AMI Administrator Certification. She consults with and provides advice to Montessori communities that are intent on generating positive and lasting change.

Parenting 101: How Giving A Simple Direction Can Create Clarity

Parenting 101: How Giving A Simple Direction Can Create Clarity

Quite often with a 3-, 4- or 5-year-old, there’s a lot of grey areas when they’re testing boundaries and you’re not sure a break is necessary—maybe he’s touching the baby’s face and he’s looking at you and he’s got this look in his eye like he’s thinking, “Can I do this? How about this? Am I making you nervous? What can I do before you say something?”

Typically, parents give ambiguous information in these moments, like, “Be careful. Your baby brother is very delicate, so I need you to be gentle.”

What is more effective in these moments is to give a clear action direction, “I need you to come and stand next to me for a moment.” Then, if he’s not moving to follow your direction, count: “5…4…3…2…1…”. And if he hasn’t come to you by the end of the count, give him a break. If he does come to you, have him stay there for a moment and then either let him return or give him a direction to play somewhere else. This inserts a very clear map for him (and you) to follow in that moment. You’ve asked him for something specific, and you’ve given him a clear timeline. He’ll begin to take your direction in these moments, because he doesn’t want a break.

It’s important that the parents aren’t threatening to do a break (so it’s not—“I need you to come over to me, or I’m going to give you a break”) because we want him to generate this thought and self-prompt in this moment.

You say, “I need you to come and sit on the couch to play.” He ignores you and you say, “5…4…3…2…1….” Then if he’s

There’s no judgment in your tone with this; it’s easy, it’s fun, it’s playful—like your child. This speaks directly to the difference between punishments and consequences.

still not on the couch, and you say in a relaxed tone, “Oh, now I need you to take a break.” Now he looks up and says, “No, no, no! I’ll sit on the couch.” And you respond, “It’s no big deal. You take the break; then you can go to the couch. Right now, you have a short break.”

You follow this pattern because your goal is to have your child follow your directions when you give them. Once you have a break process in place, you can give all kinds of other prompts, because now he takes your words seriously. As you move forward, you ask him to do what you need, and if he doesn’t, you give him a break, or you count down and then give him a break. But you don’t always have to count down.

You might simply ask your child to do something and then pause quietly for five seconds and then give the break. You don’t have to do it the same way each time because you want to keep him on his toes, so he learns to hold an awareness of your needs. There’s no judgment in your tone with this; it’s easy, it’s fun, it’s playful—like your child. This speaks directly to the difference between punishments and consequences.

You can begin by giving a clear direction and then counting. A few days later, you shift to pausing quietly for 5 seconds, then giving the break. Inevitably, your child will say, “Wait! You didn’t count!” and you can tell him, “Well I’m not always going to count. I don’t want to work so hard. You know what happens after I give you a direction. I wait a few moments, and then you get a break. It’s no big deal; you take the break, and you come right back.” The tone of voice you use and the lack of moralizing is the difference between punishment and consequence. You’re shifting from judgment and anger, which implies his actions are either good or bad, to good-natured coaching with cause and effect.

There is often a misunderstanding that administering cause and effect without judgment is too soft, but it’s not; it’s actually more effective. When your child is very defiant you can give consequence after consequence after consequence and frustrate the heck out of him. But the more you frustrate him, the more your tone should be sweet and empathetic so that your children focuses on the consequence of their choices rather than your judgment of them. •


Joe Newman was born and adopted in1963. In 1970 he was diagnosed ADHD and medicated with Ritalin. Every where he went, the playground, the classroom, even at home, Joe heard one message loud and c ear: you’re broken; your brain doesn’t work; you don’t belong.” No surprises when, at eighteen, he dropped out of college, shaved his hair into a mohawk and took off to surf the coastlines of the Caribbean and Central America. It was out in the world, working scores of jobs and starting his own businesses, where Joe realized he was not actually broken. Away from the tethers of school and home, Joe realized the same qualities called disorders were also qualities of positivity and value. Aggression became passion, distractibility became broad understanding, and stubbornness became tenacity. Realizing there must be millions of children out there, just like him, with ferocious spirits but misunderstood, he threw himself into finding and reaching these children.

His book, Raising Lions, has developed a growing following not simply because it helps parents understand why their children behave the way they do, but because the tools and solutions actually work.

TOMORROW’S CHILD © • NOVEMBER 2019 • WWW.MONTESSORI.ORG

Helping Children to Be Successful: Developing Grit

Helping Children to Be Successful: Developing Grit

by Rachel Buechler

A little girl sits at the table with the Snap Dressing Frame. She has picked it up several times before today and quickly returned it to its stand after a short attempt. Today she picks it up and places it on the table. She tries the first snap; it doesn’t connect. She looks at the snap from the left side, then the right side. She tries again; it doesn’t connect. She looks at her teacher for help. The teacher demonstrates how to connect the snap then returns it to its unconnected state. The child moves onto the snap above and, as she pushes down, she hears it connect. She pauses, smiles. Then goes back to try the first one; it still doesn’t connect. She squeals in frustration. She takes a moment to look again and again; then she keeps trying. This continues for twenty minutes until she looks at the dressing frame and the three connected snaps. She sighs and smiles then exclaims, “I did it!” Her teacher says, “You did it!” The little girl continues to look at the completed work before quickly taking it apart again to repeat the lesson.

There is so much for us to learn from this toddler’s determination to work on mastering this lesson. She is showing us how we can develop a skill that will place us ahead of others in the working world: grit. Grit is what keeps us working with our children, even when it is hard, even when we think we aren’t getting the results we want, or the progress is slower than we hoped. No matter what, we keep thinking of new ideas to try and keep believing we will see results. We are displaying grit. How can you help your students, or your own children, develop grit?

1. EXPRESS FRUSTRATION

Let the child experience frustration. This is hard to do when we can see the solution to their problem is so easy for us to fix. As they try to fit puzzle pieces into a board, we can see they just need to turn it a little further, and we can feel so helpful if we just showed them how it fit by reaching over to place the piece. If we continue to solve the child’s frustrations, we are robbing them of the opportunity to feel greater success in working through the issue. We are also telling them that anytime they are frustrated, they should rely on an adult to solve the issue. We need our future leaders to learn how to problem solve and persist to solution by accepting frustration, then working through it.

2. THE RIGHT AMOUNT OF HELP

During the Dressing Frame story, the teacher did show that the snap can be connected and, thus, modeled the action for the child. The teacher also returned the snap to its original state so the child would continue to work from where she left off. Deciding exactly what help children need is critical to allowing them to persist with the challenge, but not discourage them by completing it on their behalf. It also helps children to learn when to ask for help.

If we continue to solve the child’s frustrations, we are robbing them of the opportunity to feel greater success in working through the issue.

3. ENCOURAGE REPETITION

Even if children don’t succeed with lessons, tomorrow might just be the day they will figure it out. Maria Montessori believed repetition was the key to mastering a skill. If an infant went to walk for the first time but fell after one step, and we said: “Looks like that’s not the activity for you,” they would likely feel discouraged from attempting it again. Our response is more likely to be supportive, helping them up and encouraging them to try again and again until they are walking with stability. This is how we should help our children attempt many lessons in different areas of the classroom or skills at home. There are times when a child masters a difficult skill and then finds joy from repeating the lesson over again, as it gets easier and easier each time. As new skills are developing, mistakes will be made. When mistakes are made, we must be matter of fact about them. As the book, The Montessori Toddler, says, “Mistakes are simply opportunities to learn… if they break or spill things, we can have things at the ready for them to help tidy it up…. We can model being friendly about mistakes by not taking ourselves too seriously when we make mistakes” (Davis, 2018, p.93).

4. CELEBRATE VICTORY

The child had picked up the Snap Dressing Frame several times on various days before and realized, through self-awareness, that this was not a task that would give her immediate success. There were other skills that needed to be built first. This shows great knowledge in knowing her own abilities and where she is ready to seek the next challenge. By allowing children to guide their own learning journeys through choice and freedom, they develop more than the academic skills. They build skills in planning, organization, order, and determination (or grit). The growth of these skills allows children to feel internal celebration when they complete activities on which they have been working. This grows confidence as children learn how to fail and keep persisting until they succeed. As the book, The Confidence Code, says, “failing fast allows for constant adjustment, testing, and then quick movement toward what will actually work” (Kay & Shipman, 2014, p. 140).

ADULT INTERVENTIONS THAT DISCOURAGE THE DEVELOPMENT OF GRIT:
• Jumping in to help before you have assessed exactly how much help the child truly needs. Give only this amount of help. The joy within the child comes from persisting through a difficult task to reaching completion.

• Saying “good job” or “I like it when you_____”. These statements make the success about you and not about the internal development of the child.

• Moving the child away from a task because you think it looks too difficult prevents developing grit. Let them try; model it. Help them to determine what is too difficult. Don’t become frustrated or upset about mistakes made.

REFERENCES:

Davies, S. (2018) The Montessori Toddler. Amsterdam: Jacaranda Tree Publishing Kay, K. & Shipman, C. (2014). The Confidence Code. New York: HarperCollins

Rachel Buechler earned her BA in Education in 2009 before relocating to Charlotte, NC from England, UK. She joined Charlotte Montessori School in 2010and was the Lead Toddler Teacher for three years. During that time she earned her Infant/Toddler Montessori Certification. Ms. Buechler enjoys the individualization of the Montessori classroom foreach child and watching them follow their own unique interests as they learn and grow in the classroom.

TOMORROW’S CHILD © • NOVEMBER 2019 • WWW.MONTESSORI.ORG

Why You Need a Blueprint of Your School’s Core Values and How to Prepare It As a Community

The Montessori School Blueprint Model

Introduction

Montessori schools are different – profoundly different – from the familiar traditional classrooms that most of us attended in our childhood years.

Those of us who have spent years around Montessori children know that Montessori works; however, while the average person has heard of Montessori, most know little about it and have conflicting impressions of what Montessori reflects. This is nothing new or unique. It has been the case since Dr. Montessori opened her first school outside Rome in 1907.

Some people rave about Montessori; others think that parents must be nuts to put their children in a Montessori school. Some are firmly convinced that Montessori is too rigid and robs children of their creativity, while others object that it is completely unstructured and without any academic standards.

“Isn’t Montessori the sort of school where they allow the children to do and learn whatever they want, whenever they want? Perhaps it will work for your little Sally, but I’m afraid that if my Danny were left to his own devices, he’d never choose to do a lick of schoolwork! He needs order, structure, a small class size, and discipline!”

Over more than thirty years leading two wonderful Montessori schools, I tried to help parents sort all this out so they could reassure themselves that Montessori is not going to leave their children academically handicapped and unable to make it in the real world. Most of the parents that I’ve known are sympathetic and enthusiastic, but it is still difficult for them to defend their decision to send their children to Montessori when the rest of the world seems so completely committed to a very different approach to raising children.

Having made the decision to take this course through the Center for Montessori Leadership, we hope that you will seriously consider the possibility of leading your school through this process of extensive self-evaluation and improvement. We think of this process as Building a World-Class Montessori School.

This is a daunting task. For most Montessori schools, taking the step from being a good Montessori school to becoming a great one will require a great deal of work, the investment of a year or longer, and a considerable amount of money. Moreover, once begun, it is very important that you not back off from your commitment to excellence. Your school must be prepared to meet your families’ and staff’s raised expectations, and you must follow through on the commitments that you have made to the school community. This is not something to be undertaken lightly.

You will begin with the process of clarifying your unique character and carefully defining the fundamental values on which your work from this point forward will be based. You will address a host of issues regarding your day-to-day operation and future plans. You need to make several complex decisions about enrollment, administration, and finances; raise capital and endowment funds; and begin to implement major change. And it is quite likely that you will face a host of additional issues that you have yet to identify.

Change is often stressful to a school community but also presents new opportunities for growth.

Like anything new, it is easier to go through the process for the first time if you have a guide who has been there before. While this book cannot do your homework for you, nor avoid the necessity of putting in countless hours of hard work, planning, and decision-making, it should make the nature of your journey more easily understood and may make the process easier for you and your school community.

By our definition, a world-class Montessori school has made an absolute commitment to excellence. The school clearly defines its identity, mission, and core values. The school community has sought out examples of true excellence in Montessori practice around the world and has consciously defined what excellence would look like in every aspect of its programs, facilities, and operations. Plans have been laid for how one might create and maintain this excellence in each area, not by chance, but year after year by deliberate design.

The school has further identified what it would cost to create and sustain excellence in all things and has developed a plan for funding the cost of excellence.

Montessori schools do not become world-class simply by building the right buildings or hiring the right teachers. First and foremost, a school lives in the minds and vision of those who are central to its life. No school can be great without a clear sense of its core values and the culture of the institution: this is who we are and how we do things here. The character of the school will evolve, but it should evolve slowly and in a logical progression of maturation.

Unfortunately, we all know that it is all too easy for a Montessori school to make compromises because of tight budgets, lack of parent understanding and support, or because Montessori-trained teachers are hard to find.

We all know the story of the Emperor’s New Clothes. We must not live out this fairy tale in our schools. Ideally, we should translate what we say our school does and believes into day-to-day operation. A great school stands for something quite distinct. It cannot possibly please everyone. The school that some deeply respect and admire will have no appeal for others.

Building a World-Class Montessori School

In time every school can drift away from its original vision and core values, just as a sailboat will eventually be blown off course by the wind, current, and tides. Educational leadership can be compared to navigating at sea. It requires a clear sense of where you are trying to go, close attention to where you really are, and periodic course corrections. A blueprint will give your school a tool that will allow you to remain true to your vision.

Over the years I have had the opportunity to work with and learn from several hundred different Montessori schools around the world. Experience has shown that the most effective schools are those which commit to an ongoing process of self-study that involves not only the faculty and administration but parents and older students as well. The Montessori Foundation recommends that schools prepare a Blueprint of fundamental values and beliefs, which is used to govern the schools’ activities and decision-making processes in every area of its operation. This procedure is the first step required of schools undertaking IMC accreditation. The Head of School and the Board make a formal public commitment in writing to make no decision that is not consistent with the school’s Blueprint of Core Values.

In building a world-class school, you will have a long list of policies and procedures to reconsider, decisions to make, and milestones to accomplish, including:

  • Clarifying your understanding of what is meant by the concept of “world-class.” Identifying and getting to know one or more credible examples of schools that either are or are well on the way to being world-class examples of Montessori excellence.
  • Conducting an initial assessment of some things that will need to be done at your school to bring it up to what could be considered a world-class Montessori standard.
  • Arriving at a consensus within the core of your school community (board members, administrative team, faculty, and parent leaders) that your school is not yet world-class and that the achievement of that goal is both a realistic and desirable goal.
  • Clarifying the unique character of your school and carefully defining the fundamental values on which your work from this point forward will be based.
  • Establish several committees to analyze, evaluate, and develop a strategic plan for serious improvement in all areas of your school.
  • Structure and organization
  • Finances and investments
  • Academic programs and extra-curricular opportunities that give your students and parents “bragging rights.”
  • Utilization of space in your facilities, from the front entrance drive to parking, signage, and pathways around the campus, classroom layout, storage issues, office areas, playgrounds, gardens, landscaping, and sports fields.
  • Maintenance of your buildings and grounds
  • Day-to-day systems throughout your school
  • Board-Head relations
  • Auxiliary operations, such as summer programs and after-school activities
  • Your school’s image and constituent relations
  • Student recruitment, admissions, and attrition patterns
  • The school culture.
  • Fundraising
  • Personnel procedures
  • Your Board’s makeup, procedures, the orientation of new trustees
  • Management-team analysis
  • Student and faculty attitudes
  • Cost-effective use of time /space /talents
  • Support services
  • … And many other topics

Bringing world-class vitality and commitment into an existing school is a complex process. If you are starting a new school, you can begin the process from day one, minimizing “mistakes” that need correcting later.

The Blueprint Model

We began this work more than thirty years ago at the Barrie School in Silver Spring, Maryland. Our goal was to break away from the familiar jargon-laden statements of philosophy so common in Montessori. After a great deal of self-study, we broke our philosophy down into a comprehensive statement of our fundamental values and core principles of educational practice. They were intended to present a detailed picture of who we thought we were and what we stood for that could be used as a reference by the future school community over the years.

To date, we have shared this document with almost a thousand schools around the world. The New Gate School was the first to completely rewrite Barrie’s original blueprint, creating something fresh to reflect its own vision. More than forty parents engaged in weekly meetings over a three-month period, adding up to more than fifty hours. Having worked with many schools, we were deeply impressed by the enthusiasm, positive energy, and commitment that these people shared in their dreams for the school they were beginning to build.

Once adopted by the school’s board of trustees, the blueprint can be used in planning for the future, setting policy, and for evaluating of the school’s facilities and evolving educational programs.

Using the Blueprint on a Day-to-Day Basis

Blueprints and similar philosophical statements are useless if no one knows them or cares. To be effective, they must be at the core of actual decisions and actions on a day-to-day basis. This is equally true for the administration, board, faculty, and staff. This excerpt from the New Gate Blueprint outlines how the Blueprint should be used:

Community Meetings

Community meetings are critical in building and retaining a healthy school and are indispensable for ensuring that the Blueprint is properly implemented.

The school schedules and guarantees that monthly Community Meetings of parents, teachers, administrators, trustees, and interested students will be held throughout the school year, regardless of levels of interest and attendance.

These meetings will be run according to the Montessori Rules for Meetings. They will be led by a rotating facilitator, who will never be an Administrator or Board Member. There will be no elected officers. The meeting is a direct voice for the school community.

  • Any issue can be discussed, with only a few exceptions:
  • We cannot discuss issues concerning a family or student in the school.
  • We cannot discuss the private affairs of any employee of the school.
  • We cannot harangue, threaten, or attack anyone.
  • No one can be allowed to dominate the meeting.
  • Everyone must be allowed to express his or her thoughts.

The community meeting is the official voice of the community as-a-whole. It is the place where the board introduces issues that are due to come before the board. This allows the community to hear the issue, listen to information about why this issue needs to be handled, consider how this issue would fit into the core values of the school as set forth in the Blueprint document, and gives them the opportunity to sign off with their support or to request a month to do some research and come back with it to the next monthly community meeting.

The community meeting can address questions or make official recommendations to the faculty, Head of School, or to the Board, knowing that each has agreed to respond to them following its next meeting.

Their response may be to explain that they need more time or that they respectfully disagree; however, their response would be official and timely. In each case, all parties would be expected to copy and paste into their communication not only a description of the question or recommendation, or response but the specific numbered elements of the Blueprint that affect this issue.

Likewise, when the Board meets to make policy decisions, it will first ask if it has brought this issue to the Community Meeting to allow the stakeholders to understand and respond to the issue under consideration.

Before the Board considers an issue, it will first identify and copy and paste into the minutes of the Board the numbered statements of core values and beliefs that should be kept in mind before the discussion begins. When the Board does vote on an issue, the minutes of the Board will include the text and item numbers of each element that they found that applies to this decision.

The formal agreement is that the Board and Administration agree that they will make no decision that is not consistent with the school’s values.

The Blueprint process will challenge the community to participate in an ongoing monthly meeting of parents, teachers, and administrators throughout the school year.

These issues can be mundane or very serious. Work can be done outside of the meetings, but recommendations or formal questions can only come from the Community Meeting itself. It is a place where all stakeholders can become part of a conversation, make recommendations, or ask questions of the board.

The blueprint will be used constantly in Community Meetings. It will also be used by the faculty, board, and administration in their meetings.

Board Meetings

Even though the Board is the highest authority in the school, and the Head of School is the Chief Executive Officer, they agree to policies or decisions that would be inconsistent with the school’s core values as represented in the Blueprint document. Furthermore, they are held up to public scrutiny and remain accountable to the school community.

The Board holds open meetings. Before considering any motion, the Board will review the Blueprint to see which of the hundreds of Core Values would influence a decision. Those values are copied and pasted into the minutes of the board beneath the motion.

By making this commitment and by making decisions openly under public scrutiny, parents can challenge the Board’s or Head of School’s decisions on the basis of the School’s Blueprint of Core Values in an appropriate public forum. The Board and Head of School do not need to agree, but if challenged based on the School’s Core Values, it becomes very difficult for them to defy the reason for the challenge, with the ultimate balance of power resting in their decision to continue to give the school their support.

The Blueprint is a constant reminder of the board’s mission to preserve and protect the school as a Montessori program through the years.

The Blueprint Process at Work 

Here is one example of how a school used the Blueprint to resolve what could have been quite a challenging situation.

After the winter break, a child became ill when he reentered his classroom. Knowing that her child was exceptionally sensitive to many toxic chemical compounds, the child’s mother suspected that a carpet cleaning company had used a cleaning compound that had left a residue in the carpet that was making her child sick.

She came into the office and expressed her concern. The Head of School contacted the cleaning company, recognizing that the Blueprint requires her to take all such concerns seriously and with respect and courtesy. It turned out that the carpet shampoo could leave a residue in the carpet fibers if the operator did not manage to get all the compounds out of the rug. The solution is simple. The cleaners came back in and cleaned the rug a second time, this time using no chemicals. The school covered the expense for the second cleaning, even though it was not in the budget because each child’s health and well-being superseded normal budget priorities. The immediate problem was solved.

At the next monthly Community Meeting, the child’s mother and several of her friends proposed an addition to the school’s Blueprint under Section 5: Facilities: “No toxic chemical can be brought on to the campus without an advisory committee made up of volunteer scientists.”

The community meeting discussed this proposal and quickly agreed that it was impractical because no doctors or scientists would be comfortable committing the time or assuming the legal liability. So the proposal failed at the Community Meeting level, but a somewhat amended proposal was made and supported. This amendment to the Blueprint stated that the school will attempt to avoid using toxic substances for cleaning or pest control, and in selecting materials for the finishing of new facilities, will seek finishes and floor and wall coverings that are not known to be toxic. This proposal reached the board and was approved into school policy as part of the Blueprint.

The Benefits of Having a Blueprint for Your School:  Schools that have a Blueprint in place tend to develop a strong sense of community among parents and staff. Parents and faculty have a clearer sense of the school’s fundamental values and are more likely to communicate concerns based on issues rather than personal likes and dislikes or factional loyalties. The Blueprint also provides a clear and impersonal means for resolving grievances.

One of the unexpected benefits of the process is that it normally leads to substantially higher levels of re-enrollment, especially at the ages where children typically tend to withdraw. It also tends to lead to a substantial increase in fundraising. It is not uncommon to see one or more major gifts come out of this process.

Developing the Blueprint:  The Montessori Foundation recommends that the Blueprint is developed through a process involving the whole school community – Board, administration, faculty, parents, and students who are mature enough to understand and contribute to the process. The reason is that this results in a strong community that understands and has “buy-in” to the principles incorporated in the document.

Understand, however, that the Blueprint will always be a work in progress, which is able to be adapted to changing needs and circumstances. While it is possible to prepare a Blueprint over a series of meetings spread out over weeks or even months, the Montessori Foundation recommends that the work be done over a weekend —a “Blueprint Retreat.”

Intensive Communication:   As you prepare for your Blueprint Retreat, use Intensive communication to let people know what you are up to, why this is important, and how the process will work. Give people at least a month’s lead time to allow them to understand what this is all about and to fit this into their calendar if they are interested.

Prepare a Sample Blueprint:  Rather than begin with a blank page, we have found the process becomes much more manageable to start with another school’s Blueprint. Choose a Sample Blueprint which most corresponds with your school’s character and prepare for the weekend by making some minor adaptations.

The Board and Head of School go through the sample and shape it somewhat to fit their school – removing aspects that do not correspond with your school and noting any possible additions. No two schools will likely have the same Blueprint, although most schools will probably have much in common. The nine sections of the Blueprint document are aligned to the nine functions that are examined when a school is examined and evaluated for IMC School Accreditation.

  • Educational program
  • Faculty and personnel
  • Facilities
  • Finances
  • Administration
  • Governance (the Board) or ownership
  • Recruitment and admissions
  • Building  your school’s sense of community – reducing attrition
  • Fundraising – Sources of working capital

There is nothing magic in this way of looking at a school; someone else could have more or fewer sections in their frame of reference. We have found this to be a useful structure.

Communicate with the School Community:  Send the sample Blueprint (the one from which you will start) to every school community member, either by email or printed copy.

Clarify the purpose and structure of the blueprint so that every member of the community understands the reasons for this process.

Emphasize the importance of this meeting. This is a watershed event in the history of the school. Tell parents and teachers that if they can only come for an hour or two, that they should still come for as long as they can. The process is enlightening, and even those people who stay for a few hours will often gain new insight into the school and Montessori. Everyone should feel comfortable coming for whatever amount of time they can invest. ‘If you care, you want to be there.’

Publish this information in a variety of ways to reach the widest possible number of community members. Send it home to all parents.

  • Post it in the school hallway.
  • Post it on your website.
  • Send emails reminding people of what is happening, when, and why.
  • Appoint a facilitator and a scribe.

The success of the experience depends on how good the facilitator is and how much he or she really knows about Montessori education. The facilitator should be more of a teacher than just a facilitator. In some ways, the Blueprint Retreat is like a college seminar that leads people, teachers, as well as parents to understand Montessori on a much deeper level.

You also need a scribe who will be able to alter the draft document as the meeting progresses, to project the changes onto a screen for the entire working group to view.

Hold a Blueprint Retreat.

We recommend that the Blueprint be drawn up in a marathon weekend retreat rather than being spread out over many weeks. We find that there is momentum that builds up over a weekend. When it is spread out, people tend to lose the thread of the discussions and do not develop a full sense of how the Blueprint ties together.

  • Find a comfortable setting that is convenient for all the stakeholders. A typical schedule will look like this:
  • Friday evening from 7:00 to 9:30 PM Saturday from 9:00 AM until 5:00 PM Sunday from 9:00 AM to 3:00 PM
  • Print out additional copies of the sample Blueprint to have on hand during the retreat.
  • Obviously, you have to provide a careful orientation at the beginning of the retreat and then review the process and goals from time to time as new people join in.
  • If your school is not already following a structured and peaceful meeting process, it is essential that the principles of the “Montessori Meeting Guidelines” are explained before continuing.

Crafting the Blueprint Point by Point

The Facilitator leads from the front of the room.

The first item is projected on a screen large enough that everyone can see it. Go through the numbered items on the draft Blueprint one item at a time. A scribe with a laptop connected to a projector makes changes to the original text file as the group moves along. The entire group can see changes as they are made. Post the day’s work on your website so parents and teachers can see what has been accomplished.

  • Participants take turns reading the next numbered item and leading the group through the discussion.
  • Each element is carefully considered, point by point, to determine how well it captures their own school’s unique
  • character.
  • Does this value statement define what we believe, even if we are not currently living up to this belief in our daily practice?
  • Are we prepared to commit ourselves to making this real?
  • Does it work just as it is written?
  • Does it need something reworded or added in?
  • Can it be rewritten to capture the special flavor of this school better?
  • Is a particular element inappropriate for describing this school’s programs and atmosphere?
  • Is it completely wrong for your school and needs to be dropped from your Blueprint completely?

Do not attempt to write or amend your mission statement first. Even though it comes first in the document, reviewing your current mission statement, or writing one from scratch, should come after the Blueprint has fleshed out the nature of the school. It comes last in the process because it captures the spirit of all the details in the governing document.

Tackle the biggest and most important section first — the Educational Program:  All great schools have a coherence of core principles and values that define their character. The educational program should not be the arbitrary creation of the teachers who happen to be at the school this year. The program should be based on a central and clearly defined model, which is consistently followed from class to class, from one level to the next, and from year to year.

These fundamental defining elements of practice are nonnegotiable. Teachers are to be hired on the basis of the school’s conviction that they have the skills, experience, and personality to faithfully and effectively implement the school’s program by conscious design, not chance. Anything behind these core issues can be added in as well, so long as the addition is consistent with the school’s core values.

At first, people tend to struggle with the process. Generally, this is because the Blueprint is not a statement of what is true in the school today. It is a statement of what we believe and what we are prepared to commit the school to follow. After the first hour, groups tend to move through the long document quickly.

Self-Study Working Committees:  The self-study process will usually involve seven working committees focusing on the following areas:

Educational Program:  This is clearly the largest area, and you may want to establish several subcommittees to focus on curriculum and program development in each major area, which might include:

  • The sciences and technology education
  • Mathematics
  • Economics
  • Cultural and physical geography
  • History
  • Anthropology
  • Mythology
  • Architecture
  • Civics
  • Reading
  • Composition
  • Research skills
  • Literature and poetry
  • Second language study
  • The visual and performance arts
  • Health and physical education
  • Philosophy and ethics
  • Human relations and conflict resolution skills
  • Leadership training and cooperative teamwork skills
  • Stress reduction.
  • Creative thinking and problem-solving skills.
  • Extracurricular clubs and activities
  • Community service projects
  • School-year calendar and the daily schedule
  • Evaluation of the educational program
  • Staffing needs
  • Central educational resources and materials collection
  • Facilities
  • Defining the ideal campus, facilities for the arts, dance, performances, sports, swimming, riding, library, offices, teachers’ rooms, storage, parking, traffic flow on campus, landscaping, safety on campus, and environmental impact analysis.
  • Enrollment
  • Defining the ideal student body (ages, numbers, characteristics, recruitment of new families who share our fundamental values).

Community Relations

  • Community outreach, public relations, recruitment and marketing, grandparents, intergenerational programs, and untapped community resources.
  • Administration, Board, and Personnel
  • Roles and task analysis, staffing needs, office space, hiring procedures, board development, board/staff roles, review of existing personnel policies, benefits program, salary structures, staff evaluation, and contracts.
  • Finances
  • Financial policies, appropriate controls and forecasting, cash flow analysis, budgeting process, general financial picture, long-term plan, guidelines for investing endowment.
  • Institutional Advancement
  • Fundraising strategies and policies, preparation for a capital campaign, endowment, planned to give, annual fund, development of corporate partnerships, foundation support.
  • Steering committee

The work of the various committees will be coordinated and compiled into a central Self-Study report by a Steering Committee of five community members who are highly organized and skilled editors.

As the self-study gets underway, giving the entire school community information about your progress will be essential. We recommend that you hold regular “Town Meetings” to allow the committees engaged in the self-study process to report to the school community and invite their suggestions and involvement in the next phase.

You will also need to publish occasional progress reports.

The Blueprint of Core Beliefs and Values

After the Blueprint has been written, there is a four-step process to develop and implement the Blueprint of Core Beliefs and Values. The Blueprint document is developed following the procedure outlined below.

Working from the Blueprint, the school develops a simple, one-sentence mission statement that succinctly summarizes the fundamental reasons for the school’s existence and clearly communicates its special character.

  • Once the Blueprint has been completed, identify your school’s strengths and weaknesses.
  • List all areas where you can begin to improve your programs and facilities.
  • Begin to prioritize those tasks that you want to focus on over the coming year. These will be your short-term strategic priorities.
  • The fourth step involves the process of formal Self-Study. It will be the most important and certainly the most difficult step. It will require several committees and subcommittees which will each begin to focus in-depth on one aspect of the school’s programs and facilities, asking itself these questions:

If this were a perfect world and if your school had the resources to be the very best that it could be in this area, how would this program or these facilities have to look to be consistent with your school’s vision as set forth in our blueprint?

What does your school look like in this area today? How well are you doing?

What do you propose to do over the next three years to improve your program or facilities to make them more consistent with your institutional blueprint?

This last portion of each committee’s report should be very detailed and specific: tasks, cost, timing, who will supervise, how will you evaluate your progress.

Encouraging Risk Taking

Encouraging Risk Taking

Boy climbing a net during obstacle course training

from Tomorrow’s Child – The Montessori Family Magazine – September/October 2021

By Peter Pizzolongo

Facing risks is an unavoidable part of life for most adults. So, why do we choose to take risks? Is it for the sensational thrill of trying something new or the tenacious hope that new opportunities will present themselves? Sometimes, maybe, we choose to take a risk just to exhibit a show of confidence. Whatever the reason, the lessons we learn from taking a risk have the potential to lead us on a new path (Rolison 2013) (Zeilinger 2017).

Learning to assess a risk is an essential skill for living.

The ability for adults to take calculated risks has its roots in early childhood. Yet we are in an era of limiting risk taking by children. Most parents (and caregivers of young children) worry about children, wanting them to stay safe—so they resort to limiting the risks that children take. “We are a nation of pushy helicopter parents, . . . waiting below our children on the monkey bars in case they should slip” (Bilinco 2015). By keeping our children ‘safe,’ are we inadvertently preventing them from learning how to calculate risks on their own?

The benefits of taking safe risks.

It is important for children to learn how to take safe risks, i.e., “situations that a child can perceive and choose whether or not they want to participate” (Keeler 2020). Risks that are not safe, aka hazards, are “truly dangerous for a child: situations or objects that the child does not see, cannot make a logical choice about, and that have a definite chance of hurting them.” As Rusty Keeler reminds us in Adventures in Risky Play: What is your yes? Risk is good… Risk is a natural part of life. In fact, learning to assess risk and deciding if you want to take a risk are essential skills for living” (Keeler 2020).

Children engage in play that involves taking risks to experience positive emotions, including: fun, enjoyment, thrill, pride, and self-confidence (Sandseter 2011). In risky play, children “dose themselves with manageable quantities of fear and practice keeping their heads and behaving adaptively while experiencing that fear” (Gray 2014). When a child takes a risk and attempts something outside her comfort zone, she uses the higher-order thinking skills of application and synthesis—applying what she knows to new situations (Church 2020).

The ability to calculate and take risks supports children’s learning in many ways. Taking risks develops and enhances a child’s self-confidence and ability to manage and overcome fear. Risk-taking promotes the kind of play that involves children’s use of problem-solving skills, self-regulation, and reflection. I would consider what helped me succeed. If the experience did not end as I expected, I would try to figure out what failed.

The ability to calculate and take risks supports children’s learning in many ways.

In “The Role of Risk in Play and Learning,” Joan Almon notes, “play means taking risks . . . Children are constantly trying out new things and learning a great deal in the process.” This is most evident in the risk-taking that children engage in as they use their muscles and senses in physical activities. When children are encouraged to take safe risks, they learn to assess what they can do and match that with activities that have an element of risk.

Children think about how high they can climb, from what height they can jump, and so on. They might find that what they were attempting is not possible and use problem-solving skills to try an alternative. These children are developing and using resilience; they will determine what they need to do to succeed or decide to abandon the task. Through taking safe risks, children “acquire better motor control and learn what is dangerous and what isn’t” (Sandseter 2011). A preschooler encountering a pile of logs might investigate how secure the logs are on the ground and decide whether she can climb on the pile or not. She is learning how to manage risk and develop an understanding of safety (Knight 2011). Taking risks while building physical skills is an important component of development and learning for young children.

The Role of Teachers

Recognizing the general processes of children’s development and learning in all areas is vital. It is the parent’s and teacher’s responsibility to identify the safe risks vs hazards and to set clear and reasonable limitations so that children understand what they may and may not do in the play environment.

Taking risks while building physical skills is an important component of development and learning for young children.

Understanding Developmentally Appropriate Practice is Key

Understanding developmentally appropriate practice is key: recognizing the general processes of children’s development and learning in all areas. In addition, they must consider the strengths, interests, and limitations of each child and be aware of the social and cultural contexts in which each child lives (NAEYC 2020). They must also “up the ante” when they discern children are ready for bigger challenges.

The two examples below show the difference between what is appropriate for a toddler and what is appropriate for a preschool child.

Eighteen-month-old Darius is beginning to use depth perception in his play. Today he demonstrated how he scans for obstacles and moves based on that information. He has gained control of a variety of movements: stooping, going from sitting to standing, running, and jumping. Darius shows an understanding of what size openings are needed for his body to move through, and today he successfully crawled through the tunnel.

Toddlers develop their physical abilities by continuously stretching themselves. Darius has learned (probably through trial and error) what size opening he can fit through. As toddlers freely navigate their relatively safe and supervised environment, they begin to figure out what are reasonable risks to take.

Four-year-old Ximena enjoys balancing on one leg and on the balance beam. Today she walked the entire length of the balance beam and ended by jumping off and standing on one leg for a few seconds. She coordinates her movements when jumping, hopping, and running. Ximena has mastered several large muscle skills, and after her jumping-hopping running experience, she climbed the ladder and slid down the slide—several times.

Preschoolers are adept at responding to physical challenges when such experiences are promoted. They can reach great heights on the climber, dangle upside down, and move from rung to rung with increasing ease. They can climb trees, cycle at fast speeds, and engage in ‘play fighting’ without actually hitting each other. They can balance on a beam, set increasingly higher as children begin mastering balance. They can climb up the slide, rather than only using the steps. Preschoolers can figure out how to get across a shallow creek using rocks and logs. With adult supervision, they can also begin to take risks at the fine motor level, for example, slicing fruits with a sharp paring knife.

What is your risk tolerance?

As a parent and/or teacher, you will need to determine your own tolerance to risk. What type of risky behaviors are you willing to let children engage in? If you have low risk tolerance when it comes to children’s play, it would be helpful to review expectations for young children at various stages of development and think about what children would like to do to ‘up the ante’. Then, recognizing that children are stretching themselves, your primary role “is to enable the stretching process to be manageable and safe enough . . . to help [children] to take reasonable risks” (Almon 2013).

Finally, the role of the teacher is to help children be aware of their actions and encourage safe risk-taking. Here are some examples, adapted from NAEYC’s Developmentally Appropriate Practice:

• Encourage children to choose their own learning activities: “We have several activities set up in the outdoor area today. You can choose what you want to do first.”

• Acknowledge children’s activities:

“You’re building with a lot of loose parts today!”

• Encourage them with specific feedback:

“Wow, you are certainly climbing higher today than I’ve seen you climb before!”

• Ask open-ended questions: “If you want to cross the creek, what will you need to step on so you stay dry?”

• Pose problems and ask questions, providing just enough assistance so the child can attempt a task at a skill level just beyond what she can do on her own (scaffolding): “You’ve been somersaulting down this hill. How else can you get from the top to the bottom of the hill?”

Supporting children as they explore ways to take safe risks sets them on the path to becoming adults who develop the confidence that comes from assessing risks and determining a course of action they learn from taking risks and who explore the opportunities to which risk-taking can lead.

References

Almon, J. 2013. “The role of risk in play and learning.” Community Playthings. Online: http://www.communityplaythings. com/resources/articles/2013/ the-role-of-risk-in-play-and-learning.

Blincoe, K. 2015. “Risk is essential to childhood—as are scrapes, grazes, falls and panic”. The Guardian. Online: https://www. theguardian.com/commentisfree/2015/ oct/14/risk-essential-childhoodchildren-danger?fbclid=IwAR0CZE vfmAN0udIDxWrI9xQHfob4QYM DT_R4eDpdLBvUInIkQutU0LNCapc

Church, E.B. n.d. “When to challenge children.” Early Childhood Today. Online: https://www.scholastic.com/ teachers/articles/teaching-content/ when-challenge-children/.

Gray, P. 2014. “Risky play: Why children love it and need it”. Psychology Today. Online: https://www.psychologytoday. com/us/blog/freedom-learn/201404/ risky-play-why-children-love-it-and-need-it.

Keeler, Rusty. 2020. Adventures in Risky Play: What Is Your Yes? Lincoln NE: Exchange Press.

Knight, S., 2011. “Why adventure and why risk in the early years?” ChildLinks. 3. Online: https://www.researchgate.net/ publication/275039981_children’s_ risky_play_in_early_childhood_education_ and_care.

National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC). 2020. Developmentally Appropriate Practice. Washington DC: NAEYC. Online: dap-statement_0.pdf (naeyc.org) Rolison, J.J., Y. Hanoch, S. Wood, & P. J. Liu. 2013. Risk-taking differences across the adult life span: a question of age and domain. Journals of Gerontology, Series B: Psychological Sciences and Social Sciences, 69(6), 870–880, doi:10.1093/ geronb/gbt081. Online: https:// academic.oup.com/psychsocgerontology/ article/69/6/870/545646.

Sandseter, E. 2011. “Children’s risky play in early childhood education and care”. ChildLinks. 3.

Zeilinger, J. 2017. “7 reasons why risk-taking leads to success”. The Huffington Post. Online: 08/13/2013 03:15 pm ET Updated Sep 25, 2017

Peter Pizzolongo is President of Early Education Consulting and former Vice-President of the Delaware AEYC Governing Board. He has held the positions of Training and Technical Assistance Coordinator of the National Center on Early Childhood Education, Teaching, and Learning (NCECDTL) at Zero to Three; Associate Executive Director for Professional Development at NAEYC; and Director of the Analytical Support and Technical Assistance Services Division of CSR, Incorporated—a social sciences research and management support firm. He has over 30 years of experience as an author; training and technical assistance provider; program evaluator; Head Start and childcare agency administrator; teacher; and human services program manager. Mr. Pizzolongo has authored or co-authored more than 30 publications, digital programs, and other resources. He has conducted training programs on numerous topics, including child development; early childhood education; developmentally appropriate practice, ethics; developmental assessments; health and mental health; nutrition; parenting; and program evaluation. Mr. Pizzolongo has been a member of the University of Delaware (UD) College of Education and Human Development Dean’s Advisory Council since September 2015. He received his B.A. in psychology in 1972 and his M.S. in human resources with a child development major in 1974, both from the University of Delaware and coursework in the use of technology in education programs from the University of Maryland.

 

Group of small kids walking on a tree trunk in nature.